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The Talk with Vanessa is a podcast hosted by Vanessa Willie, a certified Relationship and a Marriage Coach. The show features counseling on real issues being faced by people in today’s society. Contemporary issues like addiction, abuse, and relationships are understandably given particular focus and listeners are encouraged to talk about their various problems to get counseling, therapy, basic help when needed and a support system to get through life’s challenges.

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This week’s episode features a lady whose husband repeatedly sexual abused her children

Today’s guest met her husband while she was in her final year in secondary school. They were friends for some time and he later proposed.

She says her time married to him “has been hell” – he physically abused her and then one day, she discovered him sexually assaulting one of her daughters.

She traveled for a wedding one time and when she got back, her daughter, aged 3, would complain of pain in her private part but refused to say what happened. She later threatened to flog her if she does not speak up and the daughter disclosed her dad has been touching her private part.

She told her husband when he got back that day about their daughter complaining of pain and someone touching her private part. He brushed it off, saying it may be one of the kids, and later got angry when he sensed she was insinuating he did it. He beat her up and she nearly lost the baby she was pregnant with at the time – she bled from her vagina.

They summoned a family meeting and all seemed settled until she caught him red-handed molesting their daughter who was deep asleep at 2AM.

Listen to her share her experience below:

Listen below:

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  1. nametalkam

    July 20, 2018 at 11:16 pm

    It never ceases to amaze me how some people reason. So let me get this straight. She is married to a physically and mentally abusive paedophile and thinks a ‘family meeting’ will get rid of his perversion??? When will some women stop sacrificing their children and themselves on the altar of marriage? A grown man molesting a toddler?? Her own father too?? I am amazed that she let him live.


    July 20, 2018 at 11:22 pm

    AHHHNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT STUPID FAMILY MEETING???!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAHHHHHHNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!! WE ARE ALL DYING THERE THAT DAY. HIM HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS. AAHHHHNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  3. efionwan

    July 20, 2018 at 11:34 pm

    Mam, please there’s a place where the handle issues like this in Lagos. It’s called “Mirabel centre” inside lasuth. Go there and tell your stories, then thank hme later. Sorry for the trauma.

  4. Jada

    July 21, 2018 at 1:03 am

    Please I beg you in the name of God, help this woman. Remove her from where she is staying, get her kids counselling or something. Pls I beg you. I’m so broken by this story.

  5. lumka

    July 21, 2018 at 4:52 am

    This family meeting of a thinkg is what vexes me honestly.

  6. Michy

    July 21, 2018 at 8:28 am

    Please! leave for the sake of your kids or they will never forgive you. Though I am hoping you’ve left already.

  7. Miss Smart

    July 21, 2018 at 8:32 am

    Family meeting?? More like call the POLICE!!! Who is protecting the child? He should never have been given a second chance to get caught, even plauging the little child with further mental health issues to deal with in the future. This is the worst! So sickening.

    How a mother recovers from the guilt associated with this, I really do not know. The child needs lots of therapy and God’s love.

  8. Adeleke

    July 21, 2018 at 9:06 am

    JESU!!! (in papa Kellam’s voice)

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