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Shola OguduThe mother of Wizkid‘s first child (Boluwatife), Shola wrote a series of tweets expressing her disappointment and “covering up the idiot’s irresponsibility” she says she is very tempted to spill “so the world can know the exact truth”, but is trying her hardest to hold herself back.

She has since deleted most of the tweets, but kept the first one.

Shola Ogudu Tweets_Wizkid Baby Mama_2016

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58 Comments

  1. December Wind

    March 5, 2016 at 9:56 am

    Madam we don’t have time for any baby mama drama . He’s the irresponsible one , we’ve heard. We hope you, the “responsible” one , has a means of income to take care of your baby. Keep that innocent child out of the media!

    • Jezebel

      March 5, 2016 at 12:30 pm

      Ahhh the “idiot’s” irresponsibility keh? And she was what? The poster child for responsibility when she was having unprotected sex in a bid to trap the poor boy.

      Baby mama we haf hear.

    • Blueberry

      March 5, 2016 at 7:58 pm

      Lol. Abeg let the wind blow to expose the fowl nyansh. My tea is always ready.

  2. Antoinette

    March 5, 2016 at 9:59 am

    SPILL!!!! Why are you covering his irresponsible ass. Biko talk!!!!!

  3. M

    March 5, 2016 at 10:09 am

    That’s what happens you have a kid with a kid. Shola was very young herself at the time but she has had to grow up fast while Wiz continues to play all over the place like someone with no responsibilities. Sadly the woman always has so much more to lose… the lesson is for ladies to always protect themselves. Hang in there Shola, your son will always be your pride and joy.

  4. zoranx

    March 5, 2016 at 10:13 am

    Your eyes done open now abi

    • ATL's finest

      March 5, 2016 at 10:45 am

      Lmao! No , the eyes still close:) Hang in there Ma’am just keep extracting $$$$$ off him & make sure u & ur son is set while he adds extract $$ to your son’s acct 🙂

      Pls no spill nothing we U no fit clean up . besides, we ain’t gonna help issue rather than just help u mess up the spill :

    • Nahum

      March 5, 2016 at 3:26 pm

      My dear tell her o!!! Make she hear! This is Nigeria, there is no court to force child support issues. She should just shut up and keep collecting that money. They were both irresponsible but they both need to take care of the child. She should shut up abeg.

    • Belema

      March 5, 2016 at 4:49 pm

      Nahum, you should just shut up yourself, too. Take your damn advise.
      Wizkid is even more irresponsible for finding it ridiculous to cater for his child, but conveniently easy to afford extremely extravagant things; even those that are absolutely unnecessary. I cannot stand people who don’t get their priorities right.

    • Nahum

      March 5, 2016 at 7:28 pm

      And furthermore @belema, how do you know he is not living up to his responsibilities??? Are you there o amebo you!!! We are all assuming but no matter what, whatever he is giving her, she should keep quiet and manage it or better yet, sort it out among family and not bring it to social media so that ravenous wolves like yourself can devour her gist without helping her. Ominiknowest somebody!

    • Tilda

      March 5, 2016 at 7:34 pm

      At belema we all can’t stand irresponsibility at any level. That is why as females living in Nigeria you got to understand the realities of the patriarchal society in which we live.. We might feel liberated and civilised and on par with our western sistas. The disappointing reality is that our Laws are primitive and archaic. if she talk too much. Wiz baba will demand paternity test.. Obviously he is the biological father. Next step he’ll file for solecustody. Men do it in Nigeria just to hurt the woman noting more. na she go lose at the end of the day. So my Nigerian single ladies, we might have Instagram, Facebook, contouring and all that BUT in reality our laws do not favour female empowerment so please be SMART, STAY IN CONTROL OF YOUR INDEPENDENCE AS LONG AS YOU CAN AND DEMAND A CONDOM. LETS NOT BE DUMB AND START THE BABY MAMA DRAMA. ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

    • Quiss

      March 5, 2016 at 9:08 pm

      Nahum, abeg shut up! E don do.

  5. Puzzles

    March 5, 2016 at 10:20 am

    Is there seriously no laws in this country that ensures that men take responsibility for at least half of their child’s upkeep, like the American alimony payments or something?

    Most children from single parents’ homes are brought up in every way including financially by their mothers, even when the men have the means to do so. And sadly, some homes with both parents have the mother carrying the financial responsibilities of the family while the men lazy about or spend their money on friends, drinks and sidechicks.

    Can’t she sue him to court to ensure that he pays at least half the child’s upkeep? I’m very sure Wizkid spends more than the child’s school fees everyday on irrelevant things. Mshewwwww

    Madam, abeg spill. I like gist i no go lie.

    Tomorrow when the child grows up thanks to the mum’s hardwork. the idiot would claim he just found Christ and beg for forgiveness so that the child can care for him. Nonsense!

    • Nahum

      March 5, 2016 at 3:28 pm

      The laws are there but they can’t be enforced so we are back to square one.

  6. jinkelele

    March 5, 2016 at 10:22 am

    Me chonu
    What irresponsibility?
    Cos you don’t get the paycheck you think you deserve? A car , trips, houses or what
    Focus on being a mother and leave drama for Scandal tv.
    Cos if he was famous your tweets would have been dead on arrival.
    Grow up jor

    • Olanma

      March 5, 2016 at 12:12 pm

      Please just shut up. You think she’s a gold digger or an attention seeker? This girl is a graduate and she works, and has no time for seeking attention or public wahala like Tania and Davido’s baby mama. How many times have you seen/heard about her on the media? Abeg.
      Wizkid chill on the cars and wristwatches you’re always buying and invest on your kids. What a useless and irresponsible human being you are. You have Parents yet they can’t talk sense into your head. Next time, use a condom. Oniranu.

    • Jezebel

      March 5, 2016 at 12:35 pm

      Biko gerrarahere if he didn’t want to use protection she should have insisted. For someone you say doesn’t like attention she sure used to pop up on blogs a lot in the past until she realised that being wizkid’s baby mama didn’t pay for ferraris and trips to Dubai.

      Next time use a condom or choose Davido lol.

    • Exq

      March 5, 2016 at 1:35 pm

      Jezebel, just like your name.
      Please get lost. In the past, name how many times exactly, please mention, give the exact blogs and the stories? This girl isn’t controversial at all. You say too much shit.
      You better shut up, if you’re a woman, you should be thoroughly ashamed of yourself. You think she’s like Sophie and Tania? The deed is done, there’s a child involved, be responsible, that’s not too much to ask for. I don’t understand how you’ll post pictures of chains, watches, cars, and other unnecessary expensive things, but taking care of your child is now such a problem.
      You are stupid and you need to shut up. Irrational comment from a Jezebel indeed.

    • Jezebel

      March 5, 2016 at 2:40 pm

      Exq I will not stoop to your level by name calling hun. Ref blogs please google her and her son and see how often she was featured on blogs in the early days.

      It’s not rocket science, the Internet never forgets. So since she’s the Virgin Mary who doesn’t court controversy, tell her to make her SM pages private so the media do not have access to/about her. Simples.

    • Nahum

      March 5, 2016 at 3:29 pm

      @Jezebel, e be like say you are a potential baby mama because the venom you have for this girl is not normal

    • Belema

      March 5, 2016 at 4:57 pm

      Jezebel, as your name rightfully implies. I don’t get, the fact that one doesn’t have a private social media page, they’re controversial? Please go and lock yourself up somewhere.

    • jinkelele

      March 6, 2016 at 12:00 pm

      Please take several seats and use a seat belt

      If Wizkid wasn’t famous would she be threatening spills here.

      She should face her work jor….so what if Wizkid flaunts flashy cars. Is he supposed to give the cars to his toddler son.

      If she really is thinking in the interest of her kid then she needs to SHUT UP and be a parent and stop drawing unnecessary attention to a child who they both brought to the world. Rather she wants to be maiden member of Love and hip hop Naija Version.

  7. Kanilai Jarju

    March 5, 2016 at 10:33 am

    Irresponsible vs responsible,madam be responsible and forget the irresponsible,take care of the baby and leave us in peace please.

  8. Bey

    March 5, 2016 at 10:36 am

    The 2nd baby mama knew this and still proceeded, so will the 3rd.
    My dear just maintain ur cool and take care of ur son. You won’t be the first single mother to do so.
    You can’t force a “sperm donor” to be a father.

  9. DIddy

    March 5, 2016 at 10:45 am

    If u like talk if u like no talk, it can’t stop some ladies from being baby mama

  10. ladyb

    March 5, 2016 at 10:51 am

    What responsibility?? Mature woman like you no fit give yourself brain?You should have it all planned out before you birthed your child.what exactly are you waiting for wizkid to do? Start paying your rent? Start giving you monthly allowee? Because you hear say Davido do for him bm?? Please give yourself some sense and stop waiting for any man go and get a job and look after yourself and your child. I am a woman and things like this annoy me you were able to open your legs for him so madam please leave twitter and go find a JOB .wizkid keep sharing your mandigo o. Man Wey no get shame whatever decision you take look after your CHILD and stop being a twat. Whilst your at it lock that dick up shey you know say different girls Don dey talk say dem follow you go armsterdam so should we be expecting another baby? Mtchewww pusio?
    S/O to mother’s who have successfully brought kids up single handedly God will replenish you.
    #rantover#dropsmic

    • Lee

      March 5, 2016 at 12:21 pm

      Your comment was very painful to read, apart from the fact that you made little or no sense, your grammar = horrible.
      Wizkid doesn’t have to pay her rent and quite frankly I don’t think she needs him to do so. This girl has a 9-5, a good one at that (apparently), however he needs to be financially responsible for his son. No matter how much the Shola babe makes, it is his responsibility. You cannot be posting expensive things on social media all the time, but neglect your child financially. In the past, bloggers have reported Wizkid neglecting his son financially despite posting pictures of him on social media; I assumed they were just saying their usual bs. Also, this girl is allegedly a year younger than Wizkid, so it’s not like she’s in the same category as Wizkid’s Gambian baby mama or Tania. The babe might be frustrated, you go through so much bs and before you know it, you don’t know when you explode. Wizkid you better change your ways so you don’t eventually regret it in the future.

  11. Ebere

    March 5, 2016 at 11:17 am

    Too late!!!!You should have spilled the tea when baby mama news was hot in January………Please hold your peace,at least for your son…….

  12. ACE

    March 5, 2016 at 11:18 am

    Who you help madam!??? Biko we don’t want to hear, am sorry but we all have our own issues, na you open leg oh for ram oh! Deal with your issues away from public eyes. Thank you

  13. zoo drink

    March 5, 2016 at 11:20 am

    most of you that just commented are just a pot of beans.
    you guys and assumptions?? why don’t you guys shut up first or reserve your comment until she says what is worrying her and if it is about baby mama drama then you can comment not that any of you guys are even saint or better of….
    Naija people and the eagerness to shade other people when is not even your wahala!!!

  14. no be today

    March 5, 2016 at 11:23 am

    Clarion made her son the envy of all please learn from her.

  15. mrs chidukane

    March 5, 2016 at 11:38 am

    SPILL! SPILL! SPILL! SPILL!

  16. pinkypearly

    March 5, 2016 at 11:45 am

    Say all you want it will change anything, you will only be seen as a aggrieved ex. Focus on your life and that of your son at the end of the day that’s what count.

  17. miss B

    March 5, 2016 at 11:48 am

    Here is my story.Am in my early twenties and a graduate and i have not been in a serious relationship that involves sex because am scared to make the mistake my mum made by getting pregnant out of wedlocks and then in thevolden days it not easy to marry a single man after having a child andthen she found herself with a married man.My problem now is that am ready for a serious relationship but i can’t find someone am interested in and even guys i meet wants an experienced girl which am not d best choice for that because am stil playin the V-card and sometimes am even shy to talk about it and when am with my friends and we play games and am been asked a question relating to xxx i jez cover it up because i don’t want anyone tinkin am still playin d v- card.I just recently met a guy and we talk about a lot of things and then i got to know that he doesn’t like to date my type because he feels he is hurting them that he prefers to date an exposed and experience girl.Right now am confused whether i shud him or not and i really like this guy even with our religious differences.Or maybe it just a sign that i haven’t find the right guy yet.Am so confused and lonely which i don’t want to be, please i need ur help bellateam.tanks

    • Lee

      March 5, 2016 at 12:28 pm

      The world has changed, I like the fact that you’re very cautious and you’re not willing to make the same mistake your Mom made. People will think you’re being stupid or archaic, but pay no attention to them. Stand your ground. Sex isn’t everything. What’s meant for you will be for you. If a guy doesn’t want to date you cause you’re a Virgin, or cause you don’t want sex; quite frankly he isn’t for you. Everyone has their own rules when it comes to social/sexual relationships. Just keep doing you, focus on the other important things in your life: school, career, etc, be prayerful and keep being careful as you’ve been so far, and what’s meant for you won’t pass you by.

      God bless you, Amen.

    • Lucinda

      March 5, 2016 at 12:34 pm

      Let him know who you really are now. If he’s not okay with the real you he’s not yours, trust me. Theres someone out there who is looking for exactly your type and you will never meet them if you’re still forcing yourself to fit in with where you are not needed.

      About the Vcard. Own it but don’t rub it in people’s faces. People will be curious to know the reasons why you are still a virgin, better you keep it to your self. No need to lie that you are not. Stay away from negative friends and learn to enjoy your own company.

    • Lechels

      March 5, 2016 at 12:44 pm

      Hi Miss B,
      Its not very usual for me to respond to comments on BellaNaija but I see you really need to be guided properly so you don’t make a costly mistake that will ruin your life/destiny or even dent your character. You sex in this age has been made to look cheap and a criteria for being experienced or exposed. I am sorry my dear but that is a misconception and a lie from the pit of hell. Your worth should not be tied to your experience in bed but based on your intellectual and innovatove prowess. A man who really loves you and wants you will stay whether or not you are experienced in bed. Don’t settle for less. So if he sleeps with you and you are not good in bed what happens then? He leaves you and scars you emotionally. My dear its not worth it. I am a 25 year old virgin and I am grateful to God for giving me the grace to keep myself in this perverse world. By His grace He blessed me witha great fiancé and we have maintained a relationship on purity (no sex and no kissing) for over a year now and yes I can wait to do all that because I have forever to do it. There’s no jeed testing the waters when I have a lifetime to swim in the water. Please guard the precious gift God has given you and be proud of it. Invest in developing yourself and you will be happy you did. Sending you love and praying for you! If you need to talk further please post your email here and I ll recah out to you. Bless you and sorry for the loooong epistle.

    • Miss B

      March 5, 2016 at 5:18 pm

    • Que

      March 5, 2016 at 3:00 pm

      Don’t give up your cookie for no man. It wouldn’t make him stay. Do things you feel right about not things to please anyone. Please my dear focus on developing yourself. Get a good job or good grades if you are still in school. Leave the “spoilt friends” and move with people of your like mind.

    • Bey

      March 5, 2016 at 6:13 pm

      @miss B, I think you shld be focused on meeting a guy dat shares same beliefs as you. You cant realistically expect a man dat has been having sex for 10/15 yrs to be celibate. It has to be by choice, you can’t easily push a guy to be celibate, has to come from him. That is the only way he can remain celibate, if it’s a choice made by him, a convenant to God. And not to a girl bcos he’s trying to woo her.
      Start making a list of d qualities you want in ur husband, date it, place it btw ur bible, revisit it from time to time, and pray about it.
      There is nothing God cannot do, He will give you the one who loves you and shares same faith and values as you.

    • Happywife

      March 5, 2016 at 6:30 pm

      @miss B, don’t do it out of pressure and loneliness. Trust me the right guy will come your way and will treat you more better than you deserve.
      I waited and have no regrets at all.

    • Omolola

      March 6, 2016 at 2:24 am

      You will find a man that loves you and willing to wait. If they do not want to respect your view, let the man leave. Trust me, you would meet a man that would treasure your chastity, I did.

    • jhjh

      March 6, 2016 at 9:10 am

      I’m a virgin too but I’m in no way naive. Not to brag be my personality is a 100. People love me, want to be around me ask me out all the time and want to spoil me. I’m just that bad ass chuck who everyone wants to be associated with.

      It never used to be like this. I was shy, naive, self concious and very reserved. That all changed wen I decided who I wanted to be in life.

      You know your problem? You have no self confidence. Build your self confidence to a 1000. Learn! Don’t be shy to talk about sex.
      Talk to people a lot especially older people. Mingle. Have fun. Make friends and just be a happy, carefree, knowledgeable person.

      Guys say don’t want a virgin but what they actually mean is they don’t want someone who is naive and shy in bed. If you develop your self confidence in other areas, trust me you can be a bad ass at sex after the first few tries.

      Stand your ground about being a virgin if that is what you want. Iv never let anyone make me think my decision of abstinence was a bad one. But don’t let your virginity translate to compete naivety. Live, learn and keep it a 100

  18. Bk

    March 5, 2016 at 12:13 pm

    Hi bella
    Where do we send the aunty bella’s stories to? Like an email address or something. Thanks . Would love to send mine please

    • Atoke

      March 6, 2016 at 4:30 am

      Hello,

      Please send an email to features(at)bellanaija(dot)com.

      Thank you.
      A.

  19. Kanilai Jarju

    March 5, 2016 at 12:52 pm

    Miss B ,i think you are at the wrong side of the road,to spill or not to spill the beans is the topic here.

    • Gbagbati

      March 6, 2016 at 9:07 pm

      You are a certified Odé!

  20. bimbim

    March 5, 2016 at 1:17 pm

    Nigerians can so analyse other peoplez problem… u all shud get a life n face ur personal issues…jeez

  21. idy

    March 5, 2016 at 1:42 pm

    Kip ur sef until ur ready…….

  22. emma nyra

    March 5, 2016 at 6:21 pm

    -, next time use protection. Why are U shouting?? Wasn’t he irresponsible when U we’re begging for his pipe?? Useless -. Why are U now ranting, were we there when U were opening ur legs for him?? Next time, keep ur legs closed

    • Quiss

      March 5, 2016 at 9:10 pm

      I’m sure you where there when she was begging for it? Mugu.

  23. Nahum

    March 5, 2016 at 7:30 pm

    And BN stop hiding people’s comments. Everyone has a right to air their opinions. If you don’t understand that, then disable comments.

  24. dami

    March 5, 2016 at 9:02 pm

    JEZEBEL indeed … your comment is so immature …so you both sit down and discuss how she gonna trap him right??

  25. dami

    March 5, 2016 at 9:04 pm

    why are all this stupid naija babes talking like saint… i bet the last dude ye all open ur legs for ain’t half a man to wizkid yet you re all condemning her

  26. tumz

    March 5, 2016 at 11:12 pm

    whether you say it or you don’t say it
    no one will give you money for milk
    protect yourself and protect your child
    tough times don’t last..tough people do

  27. Lola

    March 5, 2016 at 11:58 pm

    I no fit shout chai chai thereis God oh make he na take am easy and Miss B lets me tell a fact i keep yourself keep yourself let no one decieve you i aint a virgin but wish i am and the fact remain girls wish the havent given up the cookies. in the case of babymama drama in my waffi accent rolling stone na person push am#there is a reason people do things but make sure its for the right reasons#

  28. Mrs.DJ

    March 8, 2016 at 12:27 pm

    bae, alot of fathers out there are irresponsible as well. They share the same roof with their wives and split expenses from feeding, rent, kid’s cloths, education etc with their wives.

    sadly, deed has been done, you were also irresponsible at some point to have had unprotected sex with “a super star”, abi?

    just focus right now on being a great mom to your son, let the father enjoy around, some day he will come around.

    you take care of yourself and have a great life

  29. mosi

    March 9, 2016 at 4:03 pm

    The both of you are irresponsible, becos at your age sex should be the last on ur mind , since you ve decided to do the deed pls quietly face the wrath…A child is a blessing not a profit making venture.. kip your whatever this is to ur damn self.
    feminist stop bringing feminism into this , i am very sure you all didnt ask dem to do it skin to skin. #alllove

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