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#KeepTheChangeBae: Twitter User Apologises for Insulting a Lady after their Date Went Sour



A Twitter user @Pabloayodeji who insulted a lady @missmoshiku, he took on a date because she refused his proposal has now apologised.

He took a girl out to see a movie and afterwards came on Twitter to call the girl names, saying she was broke and telling her if she was hungry, she should have said so.

This obviously didn’t sit too well with the lady as she had an epic reply for him. She wrote a breakdown of their date, showing how much he spent and also included a screenshot of the money she refunded him for their date, which was more than he spent and asked him to keep the change.

On seeing this Twitter NG went wild and it’s been trending all day. The guy has now publicly apologised to her, saying his feelings were hurt because he felt she was a bit too harsh on him and was sorry for his actions. He also went ahead to refund the money she had sent to him earlier on.


  1. IY

    March 30, 2017 at 11:19 pm

    Boy bye!

    • FasholasLover

      March 31, 2017 at 1:23 am

      How did she get his account number?

    • Mr. Egghead

      March 31, 2017 at 1:36 am

      Eggzactly my kweshion!

    • Manny

      March 31, 2017 at 4:18 am

      Apparently, he had previously posted his account details publicly to solicit for help with his school fees

    • Mama

      March 31, 2017 at 4:23 am

      Read somewhere that she found it on his twitter page or whatever it is called. Apparently, he tweeted the account details a while ago.

    • Amanda

      March 31, 2017 at 5:09 am

      It was on his Twitter page. On two occasions the guy had done an SOS on his Twitter page for food and school fees. His account number was there. The girl grabbed it, paid him and posted the screen grab. The guy had to keep hi private for most of yesterday. He ended up being the broke ass sob. The funniest tweet I saw yesterday on the matter: ” But when u sef go out with boy web put flower for head like ugu seller, wetin u expect.

    • Amazinggrace

      March 31, 2017 at 5:39 am

      There was a time he ask someone for money on twitter and posted his account details,I’m sure she got it from there.lmao #lifeofpablo.

    • Whocares

      March 31, 2017 at 7:49 am

      I wondered about that too… Wait, he tweeted it? I love how peeps on bn always have the 411 . Looool. This story brought up a discussion in my secondary school WhatsApp group. I was cussing the guy for being an entitled prick and probably not knowing what it means to go on a date. Asked the guys in the group: when you go on a date, is the primary purpose sex, or to get to know a lady better”.. the responses ehn! Apparently if you agree to a date, it’s seen as you giving the green light for sex and other things to follow! First dates o!

    • kemi

      March 31, 2017 at 3:16 pm

      why will wema bank allow this free advert to pass them by?
      FirstBank just opened a free account for the girl tagging her #firstgem

    • kemi

      March 31, 2017 at 3:22 pm

      nailboutique, tmwigs also routing for her
      free manicure, free wigs etc

  2. Jennietobbie

    March 31, 2017 at 12:06 am

    Social media is the death of all of us ????? can’t believe this!!

  3. boybye

    March 31, 2017 at 12:06 am

    “I was really way out of line……I really hope she forgives me “…..sure sounds familiar .The first time a guy who thought he was my boyfriend (in his head) insulted and called me names, my heart ACHED. I was shaking and really pissed but I NEVER said anything back. Insult resorted from not answering his ping on time and bruising his ‘ego’. I woke up one morning and deleted him from EVERYTHING and only for him to create a fake facebook account apologising and wanting us to be friends months later. I read the messages and I don’t reply. I’ve forgiven him and also moved on and don’t want to be friends. He needs to forgive himself but I won’t be the one to tell him that.

  4. AceOfSpades

    March 31, 2017 at 12:13 am

    Even his apology sef feels some type of way. This his formula is funny sha. I have done fancy restaurant dining before and a movie after. Girl still asked me to drop her at her house in Yaba all the way from lekki before going home and still got curved till much much later. I didn’t die then but you $3800 pere and this?

    I think it’s because he’s a student or maybe a corper sha. If he was working or earning a little higher than what he is earning now, he wouldn’t think so.

    • Fisayo

      March 31, 2017 at 7:49 am


      I don’t understand. So the fine dining should automatically have translated to what exactly? Was she not supposed to go home again? Or your angst is that you had to drop her at home, in Yaba for that matter?

      And then you say you got “curved till much later”? And by that, I imagine you mean you didn’t get the cookie till much later (that’s the only thing you must mean, given the typical Nigerian man mentality)

      You lot are funny. The same men who insult women for not giving in on the first/second date are the same men who are quick to label a woman “olosho” for having slept with several men.

    • AceOfSpades

      March 31, 2017 at 9:59 am

      I wasn’t even expecting sex. This guy wasn’t expecting sex (I guess). I was expecting something more than friendship and thought after calls and texts, meeting would cement it. You see why they say many Nigerian women jump to conclusions?

      By saying much later, I meant she agreed much later. Jeeeeeeez! I don’t know about this guy’s case but my intentions were clear before we even had the date and I wasn’t pained when she said she’s building something with someone and we can only be friends.

    • Oyinade

      March 31, 2017 at 11:10 am

      You are being too hard on him and interpreting him wrongly.

  5. Thatnaijagirl

    March 31, 2017 at 12:31 am

    Isssokay…… I just hope that our young men will understand the fact that taking a lady out on a date is just part of the wooing process and may not necessarily generate a yes….#myopinion

  6. seriously

    March 31, 2017 at 12:32 am

    On a more serious note, can ladies stop going on dates with guys that you don’t intend to date? Collecting gifts & cash From several guys who put their heart in it. I mean why are we going on dates? Is it for fun or too much money to waste?

    There are too many users out there.. Who call their victims mugu or maga.. It is devilish of a guy/girl to lead any1 on..

    A guy /girl sincerely admires you (and u know it) he/she spends on you cos of what you have going not knowing u are Just here to chop and clean mouth. Define the status of your friendship and stop using people… Evil world

    • Me

      March 31, 2017 at 12:53 am

      I mistakenly loved your comment. Did you sleep well? I’m asking because what you said doesn’t even make any sense at all. How do you get yo know of you like someone if you guys don’t spend any time together at all??? How does this whole thing look in any way like this girl was there to chop and clean mouth?? Like seriously how old are you sef? Take a seat abeg.

    • Me

      March 31, 2017 at 12:54 am


    • Nne

      March 31, 2017 at 1:13 am

      But why do guys think they are entitled to something/anything from a date? The woman spends money to look good, guy spends money to woo her. If she says no, you keep it moving son. Should women get angry if they spend money to impress a guy and he doesn’t even notice them? Let’s adjust our mindset.

    • AceOfSpades

      March 31, 2017 at 10:05 am

      Actually women get very very angry if you don’t notice. We all know this. They might not show the anger to the ‘admiree’ but they get angry.

    • Mama

      March 31, 2017 at 4:21 am

      What if it was during the date she concluded she couldn’t date him? A date gives you an opportunity to get to know the person, more like “observational learning”. It could just be that she saw something she didn’t like while on the date. But I agree that not everyone deserves the nod/okay for a date. Some you know right off the bat that you can’t date; others you may have to chat with a few times before arriving at that conclusion.

    • Indigo

      March 31, 2017 at 4:42 am

      People go on dates to access each other and find out if he/she is the kind of person you will like to have as a boyfriend/girlfriend.
      Until you both agree to be exclusive you owe each other nothing and each party can decide not to take it any further.

    • Anon

      March 31, 2017 at 7:45 am

      You guys will victim blame women on ANY occasion ahahn? Rape- dressing. Domestic violence- she didn’t see the signs. Husband’s adultery- she wasn’t submissive. Mosquito bite- she posts too much on social media. Women should not go out on dates again? Sometimes I think you have to go out of your way to still insist on these sexist ideals. If she said no now, it’ll be “goldiggers who won’t date broke boys” like the 200k saga. It’s like a Nigerian woman is only good when she’s doing what a man wants. Even if she’s better or wealthier she must stoop lower to make the man feel comfortable

    • Whocares

      March 31, 2017 at 7:54 am

      Do you understand the purpose of a date? It seems to me that a lot of people don’t and that’s why there is so much confusion. So, to break down: if you meet a girl or a guy, you talk etc (maybe WhatsApp or whatever popular social media) you will most likely go on a first date (this is before gift giving and what not) to get a feel of what the person is really like. Yorubas say: oju Lori wa- so the date is to meet the person again outside the context of your initial meeting. If that’s our working definition, how can ladies know if they want to be with a guy or not if they don’t date them?!! And if the guy decides to buy gifts, well it’s on him. Who asked him to be buying things for strangers? If you consider yourself a complete person , you will not rely on gifts to make you look more attractive or improve your chances of being with a lady.

    • Iyke

      March 31, 2017 at 8:49 am

      Why would anybody go to the movies on a first date?
      You first meet up for coffee….. Very cost effective… And If the feeling is mutual, you then proceed for lunch/dinner on your next date.
      Nigerians shaaaa….On a first date you going to movies…how then are you going to know the person while you are watching ‘Captain America’.
      We are getting it all wrong in this country…. You don’t need to spend that much money on a first date… You don’t… Except you are insecure.
      Men, Stop spending money unnecessarily…it makes no sense.

    • Oyinade

      March 31, 2017 at 11:15 am

      Coffee meeting in Nigeria, Lol.

    • iyke

      March 31, 2017 at 2:51 pm

      @ oyinade
      If I’ve established a social acquaintance with you and decide to go on a date (which is an exploratory get-together to assess if there is anything more here.. …ie, initial exploration of possibilities) with you, the movies would be the last place to take you to.
      And yes there are coffee shops in VI – and also cool places where you wouldn’t spend more than 1k5 somewhere in VI, or mainland rather than a whole evening or afternoon watching a movie. Who does that?
      First date is not about FOOD and MOVIES. Do something interesting yet less expensive.
      Any civilized person needs to be able to have a pleasant conversation for a half hour, thank the person for their time, tell them how pleasant it was to meet him or her and make a graceful exit…And if the attraction is mutual, then expect a second date.
      And ladies, STEP UP! Always have your own money with you…There are a lot of freaks out there who think that spending on you translates to sleeping with you.Don’t lead an insecure brother on if you don’t like him by any chance.

    • Nuna

      March 31, 2017 at 8:36 am

      Please go and look up the meaning of a date please.

      This is why I’m an advocate of paying for my food. Hiss!

    • seriously

      March 31, 2017 at 8:52 am

      It is a female dominated site, i don’t expect anything less from the responses to my comment, but you all know what i am saying. If it is not preached in your church, deceit is evil! You will remember you read it somewhere that day.

      Going on dates does not entitle you to anything….but if you are not a kid, why do you think a guy/girl wants to go on “dates” with you? You as a lady knows when a guy likes you

      e.g Bassey in Big brother house knew Debbie rise likes him, but he has a gf and can’t give her what she wants…so from the get go, he curves her, refuses to kiss her, even when she is the one who wants it, declines to sleep on her bed…..Typical example of a man who knows from the on set and wouldn’t want to harm the next person.

      But for some people, for where? even when they know they are not into this guy/girl, they will still be collecting his money, gifts, going on dates with him…..

      GOD knows your address and can see you in 3D…..just kontinue….you know yourself btwn these ones are kids probably 100/200LEVEL STUDENTS and 3,800 to that guy could mean 3.8Million naira. Why will a guy/girl think that he/she i syour boyfriend/girlfriend if the other partner has not been doing bf/gf duties or roles……

      You might agree with me or not but just reverse the role. When guys intentionally lead you on, sleep with you, deceive you as if you have a future with him….and someday when you ask him where is this leading and he tells you that you are just friends, that is when you will understand what i am saying

      99.9% of you wouldn’t return that money that is why this small girl is your hero!

    • Ec

      March 31, 2017 at 9:38 am

      Relationship dynamics….going on dates is part of the process leading up to finding the one that beat suits you. You cant be in a relationship with every guy you date that is like eating anything that comes from the ocean. Date and pick ….then get into a relationship.

    • Nwanyi oma

      March 31, 2017 at 9:30 pm

      Abeg abeg abeg! How do you decide if you want to date a guy if not by spending time with him and deciphering if it’s hit or miss. For me one date is enough to tell if I ever want to see u again or not. But for some people a second date may be necessary to clear doubts. So all these talk of going out dates if u are not serious, holds little water. But apparently Chivalry has become an endangered attitude. Gentlemen almost don’t exist anymore. So sad!!

    • Comment

      April 3, 2017 at 10:21 pm

      Seriously you need to get a grip of yourself. Life is a game of risk and chances and it doesn’t involve relationships alone. You have to take responsibility for your own choices and don’t expect anyone to fulfil your expectations. Are you a baby? . We have no control over other people’s actions over us.

      I know many people that get into relationships with wrong and dodgy intentions and they end up falling in love and getting married and some people go in with great intentions and still fall apart. There are no rules just Gods grace. So stop being bitter or blaming anyone. Take responsibility for yourself.

  7. seriously

    March 31, 2017 at 1:39 am

    Very warped mentality.. Illogical illustration.

    The lady spends money on herself to look good while the guy is not spending on himself but the lady

    From your comment, I deduce ladies spend on themselves to get a man and also ladies are commodities to be bought over …na shouldnt be

    All I am saying is why should you use a guy /girl you know I n your mind of mind that you won’t date.. Yet collecting all t he collectables

    Its like saying it isnt bad for a guy to be sleeping with a girl, making her do wife duties, wasting her time when he knows deep down he doesn’t have any future plans for her

    Nne, If you have been collecting from a guy deceptively.. Watch it that might be what will hinder you from getting to heaven when it will stand against you…. Many are so guilty of using people male/female..

    • Indigo

      March 31, 2017 at 4:46 am

      You need to know the meaning of going on a Date first before you go around spewing your ignorance..
      It’s not like she stringed him along it was their first date fa..
      His immaturity was probably showing all over him and the young lady decided she couldn’t deal.

    • Dee

      March 31, 2017 at 7:52 am


      Your comments are very disappointing today. I thought you were more forward thinking than this.

      You are the one commoditising relationships. Calm down for a minute and think.

    • Rani

      March 31, 2017 at 1:00 pm

      Chill, it was just one date!, not like she went out on dates with him for 6 months. Even if it took her 6 months to decide nko? I’ve had guys who I’ve told from day 1 or week 1 that we can’t date, but yet they insist on flying out to come see me or taking me out to dinners , movies, buying gifts etc. If i refuse i’m too harsh, if i agree i’m using him???
      One can’t win really…

  8. John Matilda

    March 31, 2017 at 6:36 am

    Bellanaija, why are you like this, if you don’t know how to post hot gist, just let it go, I have read this same story from other blogs and I have laffed my heart out, just look at the way you munched and summarize yours as if you were forced.

    • Nikki

      March 31, 2017 at 7:57 am

      Hahahahahaaaa? The site should just stick to asoebi and weddings abeg. News ain’t their thing understandably.

    • Fashionista

      March 31, 2017 at 6:33 pm

      I actually have to agree! They didn’t even put awon WEMA Bank and Stanbic response, which were so hilarious by the way.

  9. Victor Adegoke

    March 31, 2017 at 8:34 am

    The guy messed up abeg!

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  11. Finally

    March 31, 2017 at 8:37 am

    For the first time in my over forty years of life, I finally understand why in the western world both parties split the bill. To avoid “see finish” and undue expectations.

  12. gbaskelebo still evolving

    March 31, 2017 at 11:00 am

    Guy you fall your hand wella ! I would say this once… Dude with a lady hold your tongue, watch your actions everything you do is under scrutiny! now the question is do women really forgive? ( They have a 10 terabyte storage of errors you have made ready for download when the need arises, “erase or delete” is out of the question, yes the most astonishing part is the errors are stored in a chronological order with date, time and place of occurrence! ) what do I know? unto second base mata jare…

    • Anon

      March 31, 2017 at 2:56 pm

      The Man came for her first !! On social media !!!! Like what the hell are you still blaming the woman for ? So it’s now that she should have forgiven him abi? She should have kept quiet so the guy can call her brokeassshungry beech? The way people blasted Tiwa when Tbilz was the first to post! Anyway that’s you people’s problem because women are not interested in covering up men’s silliness anymore. If you come for us, we’ll come for you back. The proverbs 31 woman is not a fool

  13. Advice

    March 31, 2017 at 2:38 pm

    Communication is KEY. The best approach to a date is both parties should state their motive for going out on that date. The man should express his intentions and if he keeps on insisting, the lady can nicely say “Okay, I’ll go on a date with you but bear in mind that this does not mean we are Official or will be Official”.. So it’s up to the man if he still wants to proceed with the date. Dating is Fun, getting to know one another in person, It’s people that make it complicated by expecting more from a simple paid “Hang out”

  14. purplesivy

    March 31, 2017 at 3:51 pm

    I love the lady. she is my kind of person.
    no time for rubbish.and childishness.
    Serves the guy right. he will never try it again with any lady.

  15. DrCeeCk

    March 31, 2017 at 4:03 pm

    Chic’s pure Class.

  16. OA

    March 31, 2017 at 6:14 pm

    I understand where Iyke is coming from, but going for coffee in Naija is a little extreme. There may be coffee shops in VI. But if I live in Isolo, heck, I am not taking a babe all the way to VI to drink coffee (if I was a guy that is) when there are many Hausa street tea/coffee sellers I could patronize along the way. I guess those would work too…Plus what if I nor get car, we go catch bus? But I get you sha.

    In my Unilag days, to get to know each other, we simply took walks and that was enough to get to know each other relatively well. But back then, I was efiks sha oh, before I changed. Sigh!!!

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