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Today’s Quote of the Day is by Nollywood actress Adesua Etomi.

Life is too short to force yourself to be put together to convince people who are not put together that you are put together.”


  1. OA

    June 28, 2018 at 1:47 pm

    Good topic to discuss…

    I learned from Joyce Meyer a long time ago about not giving myself “hedik” just because I’m trying to be what I am not, or what the people I am trying to prove it to sef, are not. Who is perfect? My mantra in life is, don’t treat people badly (at least try not to), treat people with dignity and with respect, be kind (again, try to because some people take your kindness for stupidity). In short, deal with people having the fear of God in mind. If you can do all that, you don’t have to strive to kill yourself to be what you are not.

    Even in my relationships, don’t expect the unexpectable from me, else I will quickly put you aside. Some people can be very needy and I can’t stand needy people simply because I don’t know what it is like to be needy so I can’t understand neediness! I am not talking about crisis needy – i.e. a situation that pops up in a person’s life causing that person to need your support for a time…I am talking some people are needy ALL the time. People like that, I fashi you especially when you now want to use my disinterest against me. In fact that one na lifetime fashi! I will put you in one corner, be cordial (because I owe you that), but for everything else, fashi! My husband says I am “di ni nu” (hard hearted, I think, though I disagree tremendously), but I usually only get to this place after the person has shown me like twice or thrice, so if “di ni nu” is what will give me peace at last, so be it.

  2. Toese

    June 28, 2018 at 2:27 pm


  3. Bayo Ademola

    June 28, 2018 at 7:32 pm

    Thanks Bella am inspired.

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