Relationships
What’s the Secret for a Successful Relationship? Watch for Good Advice
Most people in a relationship want good advice on how to make it work. And barely a week ago, a TV personality gave an awesome advice.
As a guest on a new show – “The Daily Help Line“, Brandy Norwood asked the hosts for their advice on having a successful relationship.
One of the co-hosts Spirit said this;
“If there was something that we could bottle, honestly, everybody wants to know the secret. And this is the hard part. Youâre not really going to like the answer because I think communication every day is the key. And I honestly think that most people are not willing to do what it takes to make a marriage work, much less a relationship. Most of us, we have to ask the question: Why should I share my passwords with my partner? Why do I have to tell them where I am?
I really think with all sincerity, I really think that relationships are hard, and people donât want to work hard. You have to tell your partner, âIf weâre going to do this, I mean literally do this, it needs to be âtil death do us part, not âtil divorce do us part.â So if divorce is never an option, and your personal happiness always has to be an option, then what youâll say is âHey listen, we have a problem and I refuse to be unhappy so we need to figure this out. We need to get to resolution. When you take it off the table, then you have the opportunity for resolution, you have the opportunity to forgive, and you have the opportunity for forever. Forgive. You canât hold on to stuff.”
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