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As I grow and learn, I realize this thing called love cannot be forced – Toke Makinwa

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There’s a meme circulating online which talks about men being different in certain relationships and how women should stop trying to change a man who doesn’t want to be with them.

It looks like it caught media personality and OAP Toke Makinwa‘s eye and in true Toke fashion, she shared the meme accompanied with a few words.

She wrote:

This!!!! I saw this and screamed amen so loud???? same thing I was telling someone yesterday. It has nothing to do with you, stop blaming yourself for not receiving the kind of love you gave out, sometimes these things don’t work because they just aren’t meant to be and that’s ok. People don’t change for who they want, people change when the time is right and quite frankly growth happens when you let it. That “bastard” is someone’s future husband and guess what? She’s not going to see that side of him. Not excusing bad behavior but as I grow and learn, I realize this thing called love cannot be forced. Love yourself enough to swallow that jagged little pill called truth and walk away with your head high. You’ll meet your own king and you won’t need to beg or force him to treat you right. Ladies this one is for you. #Relationshiptalk#OnBecomingFearless?#Loveisagameofwin#evenifyouloseyoustillwin #Takethelesson

7 Comments

  1. Ng

    January 31, 2018 at 10:07 pm

    When you finally reset your medulla oblangata and tell your self the obvious truth.

  2. Sany

    January 31, 2018 at 10:44 pm

    I’m tired of all this self love/pity talk women like to give themselves. They don’t give room to be better, improve themselves in other ways. Your body, is not enough to sustain a relationship. These women are just as bad, cheaters, dirty as the men they complain about.

  3. BOSS

    January 31, 2018 at 11:54 pm

    Bella, ko le werk. leave Toke alone. You are using her as bait for clicks. Disgusting of you.

  4. Oprah

    February 1, 2018 at 12:52 am

    Igbayi la aro

  5. ajankolokolo

    February 1, 2018 at 8:30 am

    ” That “bastard” is someone’s future husband and guess what? She’s not going to see that side of him. ”
    preach toke

  6. Deleke

    February 1, 2018 at 11:17 am

    John’s comments awaiting……………..loading

  7. Bimbo Olaitan

    February 1, 2018 at 11:21 am

    The picture and what Toke said says it all. It high time women stop blaming themselves. If you have tried everything and things still don’t work then is better to leave.

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