Aunty Bella is our agony aunt column on BellaNaija. We launched this column in the early days of BN and periodically feature issues sent in by BN readers....
“Hello, I was wondering if after all these years you’d like to meet. To go over everything… They say time is supposed to heal you, but...
The first thing that comes to mind, when someone cheats is that their relationship is rocky. That must be the reason behind their cheating, surely. They...
I’ve always believed that signs and messages have more meanings than the obvious one. I believe in reading what is not written and hearing what’s not...
French philosopher Jean-Paul Satre amongst many other ideas is notable for postulating how our minds react to awareness of conscious observation. In simpler terms, he wrote...
It was a bright autumn Saturday afternoon. What a beautiful time to go for a walk. So, I set out to go to a nearby park...
Is there a point where it is okay for the other half to possess all passwords with unrestricted access to our electronic life? At first glance,...
I needed a gateway article to usher me into writing again and this hit it off with me. A lot has happened in my life in...
Aunty Bella is our agony aunt column on BellaNaija. We launched this column in the early days of BN and periodically feature issues sent in by BN readers. This...
I was riding home with a colleague last week in his car, it was supposed to be a short journey but lasted longer than expected (thanks...
I saw a picture post the other day and it got me thinking. It read this way: Me: I want a dragon for Christmas. Santa: Be...
We’ve all heard the complaints…and you have probably even made some of them yourself. You know the ones we’re talking about. ‘Nigerian men are not romantic...
There are very few ironies in life as bitter as the situation surrounding social perception of relationship troubles in Nigeria. Perhaps the only rival to this...
“So … do you like him?” My friend’s grin, when I caught it from across the table, was different – broad, baring teeth different – from...
The problem with communication when thought of in a quantitative manner is that we can’t really outline when it is too little or too much. And...
The most intense and emotionally wracking fights I’ve had in my existence have been with my brother. After two years of not speaking, I wondered whether...
It has been incredibly difficult to keep up with TV shows the way I used to. With work getting incredibly busy, and this business of learning...
A lot of times, you hear people say “he’s not the person I used to know; he changed”! “I don’t know what happened, she just changed”!...
“The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them”- Ernest Hemingway In the first place, let me assume that those...
A pastor named Tunde, on Monday urged an Akure Customary Court to dissolve his 15 year-old marriage to his wife, Agbeke for alleged frequent nagging. Tunde,...
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